

Mike Cotayo
LCSW
Licensed in the state of AZ, FL, NY, CT and NJ
Insurance accepted
Aetna
Anthem
Cigna
Humana
and 12 more

Accepts new patients
Meet Mike Cotayo
HIV/AIDS & Trauma-Informed Therapist | Empowering Emotional Wellness
Looking for a Sex-Positive Therapist Who Gets It? Here I am! :) Hello there! I’m Mike Cotayo, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience helping people navigate life’s complexities. I earned my MSW from NYU in 2000, and in 2007, I embarked on a transformative journey to become a Gestalt Therapist, further refining my skills to provide compassionate, effective care. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, I bring a unique perspective to my work, specializing in sexuality, relationships, and identity. My practice is rooted in a commitment to embracing diverse lifestyles and choices.
Whether you're exploring kink, polyamory, or the intersection of disability and sexuality (a focus of my Ph.D. research), I’m here to support you with empathy, humor, and zero judgment. Laughter can be a powerful tool for healing. I believe every session should be a safe space where you can be yourself and even find moments of lightness on your journey.
Let’s work together to create a life that feels authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely yours. Ready to take the first step? Reach out today—I’d love to help! Licensed in AZ, CT, NJ, NY, FL.
Whether you're exploring kink, polyamory, or the intersection of disability and sexuality (a focus of my Ph.D. research), I’m here to support you with empathy, humor, and zero judgment. Laughter can be a powerful tool for healing. I believe every session should be a safe space where you can be yourself and even find moments of lightness on your journey.
Let’s work together to create a life that feels authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely yours. Ready to take the first step? Reach out today—I’d love to help! Licensed in AZ, CT, NJ, NY, FL.

Accepts new patients


My philosophy
At Healing Our Parts, I believe in a holistic, patient-centered approach to mental health. My focus is on building a strong therapeutic relationship, where each client's unique experiences are valued. I specialize in emotional regulation, anger management, and anxiety reduction, creating tailored treatment plans that align with individual goals. I embrace diversity and work with clients facing various challenges, including trauma and addiction. Laughter and creativity play key roles in my practice, fostering healing and resilience. Together, we will navigate your journey to emotional wellness, ensuring you feel heard, supported, and empowered every step of the way.
My treatment approaches
• Holistic Approach to Mental Wellness
• Emotional Regulation Techniques
• Anger Management Strategies
• Anxiety Reduction Methods
• Crisis Intervention Skills
• Trauma-Informed Care Practices
• Harm Reduction Psychotherapy
• Culturally Sensitive Interventions
• Client-Centered Treatment Planning
• Evidence-Based Therapy Techniques
• Psychodynamic
• Strength-Based
• Gestalt
• Experiential Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
• Attachment-based
• Coaching
• Eclectic
• Family Systems
• Humanistic
• Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
• Somatic
• Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
• Telehealth sessions
I specialize in treating individuals with:
Mental Health
I provide professional care to people with the following conditions:
Addiction
Relationship issues
Mood disorders
Trauma
Panic attacks
ADHD
Services & Pricing
Transparent pricing for quality care
Choose the right type of service based on your needs and budget without compromising on the quality of care you receive.
Initial Visit
An initial visit with a provider involves a medical history review, an assessment of your specific symptoms and concerns, and possible diagnostic tests to evaluate a patient's health, identify issues, and develop and discuss treatment options.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
55 mins session
Video visits only
$150 /visit
Rates shown are out-of-pocket costs. With eligible insurance, you may pay less than the listed rate. Please check with your insurance provider for an estimate.
Follow-up Visit
A follow-up visit with a provider involves checking the progress of the patient's treatment plan, assessing any new symptoms or concerns, and adjusting the treatment plan as needed to ensure optimal health outcomes.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
55 mins session
Video visits only
$125 /visit
Rates shown are out-of-pocket costs. With eligible insurance, you may pay less than the listed rate. Please check with your insurance provider for an estimate.
Free Consultation
An opportunity for potential patients to discuss their concerns or needs with a provider, or therapist, to determine if their services are a good fit and to receive initial advice or guidance. Many providers offer free or very affordable consultation services with potential patient leads. Providers who add Free consultation as a service receives 2-3 times more prospects.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
15 mins session
No meeting visits
Free
Experiences
My education and work experiences
Work

Healing Our Parts Group Psychotherapy Practice, LLC
Owner/Clinical Supervisor/Therapist - Full-time
Jan 2024 - Present
We envision a world where everyone, regardless of their background or personal challenges, can access effective and compassionate mental health care.
We are committed to creating an environment where individuals can heal, grow, and thrive on their path to authentic wholeness. Our vision is built upon the values of diversity, equity, inclusion, and anti-racism, and we aim to be a beacon of hope for those seeking guidance and support.
Our mission is to facilitate holistic healing and empower individuals on their journey to authentic wholeness. We are dedicated to providing personalized and compassionate virtual psychotherapy, fostering a safe and empathetic space for diverse individuals. Guided by principles of diversity, equity, inclusion, and anti-racism, we strive to dismantle systemic inequalities in the mental health field. Our team is committed to accessibility and effectiveness. Our goal is to be a source of hope to those we serve.View all

Cerebral Medical Group Telehealth Platform
Telehealth Supervisor/Therapist - Part-time
Sep 2021 - Mar 2023
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MotivoHealth Telehealth Platform
Telehealth Supervisor/Therapist
Mar 2021 - Mar 2024
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Education
Modern Sex Therapy Institute
Doctorate of Clinical Sexology
Oct 2024 - Present
Gestalt Center for Psychotherapy & Training
Associate of Gestalt Therapy - Certificate Program
Oct 2007 - Aug 2010
New York University/Ehrenkranz School of Social Work
Master of Master of Social Work
Sep 1998 - Sep 2000
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Get the support you need with a personalized treatment plan and flexible scheduling online or in person.
Ratings & Reviews
Here is what my patients said about me
98%
of patients said
“I feel better now after the treatment“
83%
of patients said
“I was treated with good care and respect“
93%
of patients said
“I understood the treatment plan“
Appointment types
I accept video visits
Video visit

How to prepare for video visits and what to expect?
For a video visit, you will need a computer or smartphone equipped with a camera and microphone. Prior to your appointment, please use the link provided in your confirmation email to ensure that your device is compatible with the video visit. If you're using an iPhone, it's recommended that you access the visit through the Safari browser for optimal performance.